WOMEN LIKE YOU AND ME CAN’T BREATHE IN THAT SPACE
I realized really early on in life that I didn’t fit into any kind of box but that didn’t stop me from trying to from time to time. I think you’d be lying if you said you didn’t try to fit your star-shaped magical self into a boring square hole in order to “fit in” at some point in your life.
The funny thing is, no matter how many stages I went through in life where I might have tried to do that it was always always short lived. It didn’t work. I got uncomfortable and busted the box open and blew up whatever I needed in order to feel like ME.
I think that probably made me look like a bit of a crazy person from time to time, especially in my early twenties lol but what I know to be true is that I wouldn’t have done it any other way. Looking back now, I’m damn proud of the way I handled things. I never stayed somewhere that didn’t feel right for too long…well maybe for longer than I “should” have but still, when it was time to go, I did and I did so with my head held high.
About ten years ago I started to fully embrace my own super powers and use them to my advantage more often than I was trying to mask them and everything changed.
It’s been quite a ride along the way, a great ride. The lows all turned out to be magical and perfectly executed by the powers that know more than me and keep steering me towards the next, better version of me.
You see, we’re constantly changing.
At least we should be. It’s when we don’t allow ourselves to grow and change and deepen with each passing day that we start to dull. The vibe gets mundane and we feel….BLAH. Not good, not bad, but almost muted.
People like you and me can’t breathe in that space. We’re not capable of residing there and that’s why we sometimes feel stuck OR why we sometimes make what appear to be rash decisions. Things that don’t make sense to anyone else but things that we know with every fiber of our being we MUST do.
Because somewhere along the way we started to believe what the world was screaming at us…. That we had to do things a certain way. That we have to show up a certain way. That we couldn’t be ALL of the big brilliant glorious things that we naturally are because it was “too much” for everyone you encountered.
And we squished into a grey, mute place that didn’t serve us AT ALL.
I’m so glad I got out of that, but it’s not to say that with every layer I peel back, with every aligned action, with every new glass ceiling I shatter, with every deeper level of understanding that I’m not met with those pressures to “tone it down”.
Over these past 10 years I’ve worked diligently on getting to know me. On figuring out what I could do, what I needed to do, to feel…..ME.
I’ve had to unlearn more than I had to learn.
And recently I had this revelation that I needed to create a space for this.
I needed to create a space for women like me. Women who are badass business productive get shit done kinda ladies (or are really trying to be as much as we can) AND are drawn to the energy that is all around us. AND enjoy the lunar cycles. AND feel connected with the earth. AND find comfort in the strategy, in the doing. AND desire peace and calm. AND can thrive in chaos but don’t have to reside there. AND well basically want to be everything we want to be.
>Women who desire to be successful in business in the industry standard sort of ways but on their own terms.
>Women who desire to be connected to the energies of the universe, of this earth, and of the moon.
>Women who want wellness. Not the magazine, fitness fad challenge kind of wellness but the kind of wellness that you feel in your bones. The kind that actually serves you, fills your cup back up and allows you to walk in a vessel that you love, instead of fight against.
>Women who are leaders in every area of their lives. They’re compassionate. They want to be there for the people around them, the people they care about and not have it be just another thing on the list to accomplish that day, but truly be present and enjoy those people they love.
>Women who want to learn how to work with their own natural rhythms and gifts, not against them.
>Women who wonder to themselves in the car, while doing the dishes, or in the shower when no other sounds are on about can they really have all of the things they want? Is there a way to be everything? Is there a way to do it with grace, health, peace, and a presence that let’s face it, only a strong and soft woman can bring?
Let me tell you that you’re not alone in these desires.
And yes, you can allow yourself to be all of those things.
I created a space just for you because dammit, I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars and many years trying to find one place where I could get all of this and it’s NEEDED.
I’m not saying that I have all of the answers, I never claim to be that. But I am saying that I can help you bridge the gap, shorten the timeline, and make you feel a lot less like someone climbing alone.
Incubator meets Mastermind meets Inner Circle meets Coaching meets Community and I’m simply calling it LIBERATION because nothing could really encompass what this is in just a couple of words.
It includes a tight, small community cultivated just for a woman like you. It includes voice support for me daily, riffs as the universe delivers them, and seeing things in real time within my own life and evolution in a way I’ve never offered before. It includes personalized goal setting and weekly private check-in with me. It includes private coaching sessions. It includes dozens of training videos and exercises that you will have lifetime access to. It includes monthly hangouts with the women in the group. It includes support like you’ve probably never experienced before. It includes getting the gritty details on everything I’ve learned from my 10+ teachers of the past decade and how you can make these things work for you. It’s finding your own rhythm or maybe getting back to it. It’s maximizing your influence while minimizing the pressure and time. It’s the balance. It’s the growth. (side effects will most definitely be more money, less stress, and more happiness )
My favorite part is the ability to show you the constant evolution in real time because you see, it’s in the allowance of my depth of understanding of simple concepts to continue to increase that has made this journey of mine the very best.
And it’s been in me seeing my mentors share with me recently that I realized how much I had been missing that part all along.
Because the growth never really ends and for women like us, if we let it then that’s when we start experiencing the things we hate the most (the burn out, the doubt, the dull, the stuck, the stagnancy in all areas of our lives, etc)
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Jamie Thurber
Life & business coach
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